Thursday, September 23, 2010

B-U-L-L-Y ING & IES

               In ISKL Melawati on my fourth and fifth grade, I have seen various types of bullying. In fourth grade, there was a boy who likes sports, but the boy doesn't play sportive. Let's call this boy Johny, he was a true lover of playing soccer every break time, but he was also a true lover of getting bullied at the same time! Most of the boy bullies excuse was that Johny started it first, can you believe that these bullies said something that was quite right? It's because most people that plays soccer with him became a bully to him, Johny's soccer tackles are 90 percent like what you would see in real, live soccer matches! Wether if Johny played soccer too rough, the point is, bullying are always wrong. Why didn't they tell teachers, so that Johny could be banned from playing it, grown ups will agree because almost everyone he tackled ends up in the nurse... 


                Later in the middle of fifth grade, I observed another bullying event. While I was walking down stairs heading to the administration office, I saw a girl crying, slouching to monkey-bars pole at the playground on class time. I ran to a wall near by the monkey bars, so I can look at her closer what might made her cry. As it turns out, her left arm was bleeding! Before I knew it, I was there beside her asking what happened. She told me about the whole story considered me as a best friend, she told me that a boy from her class did a scar on her with a pen. That's when I realized that there were some blue tint mixed with the blood. I asked her if she wanted to go to the nurse, why didn't she? I just figured out after she told me about it, she was one of the nicest girl I met! She told me, a similar experience happened to her before, her parent had to move her because of a bully, that was the reason why. But I still kept on encouraging her to go to the nurse and tell, it's not good for anybody to keep any peer pressure, I gave her suggestions to tell her parents and talk to the bully face to face.


                What I see about the word ''bullying'' is, every piece of information contained in it is completely wrong, nobody can do anything that effects bad feelings to anyone. My goals suggestion to make a better control of this bad situations in ISKL erased is to stand up and involve a grown up if needed to. If anyone see a bullying action is to report a counselor so that International School of Kuala Lumpur and your friends would perform the best role model to other students or even schools! :DDDD

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